Getting married was always part of our plan — we just didn’t expect to do it from different time zones.

When you’re in a relationship separated by distance, especially with immigration challenges, everything gets more complicated. Paperwork, travel restrictions, planning — online marriage even picking a date can feel stressful.

We wanted to start our life together. But a traditional wedding just wasn’t an option.

Then we found out we could get married online.

At first, we thought it was some kind of loophole. But after researching, we learned that states like Utah offer fully virtual marriages — with a licensed officiant and official paperwork — and they’re recognized across the U.S..

We decided to go for it.

Here’s how it worked for us:

• We verified our identities and filled out a quick form.
• We booked our wedding time with an officiant who was licensed for online ceremonies.
• We invited our loved ones to join via Zoom.
• And when the day came, we joined the call, said our vows, and just like that — we were married.

I said “I do” from my living room. My partner said it from their temporary station.

It was unforgettable. It was easy. And it was ours.

The officiant walked us through the process. The ceremony was short but meaningful. And we received our legal marriage certificate the same day — no courthouse, no plane tickets, no headaches.

Since then, we’ve used our online marriage to handle immigration documents, and every agency has accepted it — no issues at all.

If you’re dealing with distance, don’t wait. Online marriage is legal, and it’s a beautiful way to start your future — even if you’re not in the same place.

We’re proof that weddings don’t need venues — and that what matters most is the commitment.